Taken from this fine webpost. I thought about correctly some of the posters spelling and grammar, but why bother?
What shocks me is how women can defend this nonsense. Is this just an Internet thing or have some women become completely clueless about what the real nature of pornography and prostitution is all about. Even some lesbians I know have told me that being in relationships with women who were once with men was a contaminated sexual experience as well, because they had learned the bad habits of men unnknowingly. If this subtle difference can be discerned, then just think of the horrors out there in the pornification and prostitution of the world.
This has got to be a troll. Did she just say that any woman who has been with a man is ‘contaminated’ by their bad habits? The last sentence of this paragraph is a classic indicator of someone who has read college level theory and didn’t understand it, but can write a smart sounding unintelligible sentence.
As I said before, women who so passionately defend this trash are highly likely to have been the victims as children of childhood sexual abuse themselves. Millions of women have suffered this evil as children at the hands of male relatives and close family members, and they are actually never treated or given the help they need to recover from this. The weirdness of women getting into all of this evil I believe is directly connected to women as girls being seasoned and abused. Oftentimes this is so traumatic, that the girls don’t “remember” consciously the abuse at all. But it is “remembered” in their bodies and in cellular memory, and I believe when women feel drawn to be in porn, or to do burlesque or to promote this degrading S & M underworld, well, they have already been programmed.
First off, I really want to help her out a little because she writes the way I walk after dollar beer night. I do keep a Rosetta Stone around for such moments and from what I can gather she knows that I was molested as a child because she believes I was molested as a child. It’s a completely solid argument, clearly backed up with examples and sound statistics. I believe it was Nietzsche who said that a casual stroll though through the lunatic asylum shows that faith does not prove anything.
Society programs all kinds of behavior, but the imprint of sexual objectification is very strong and very awful for women. In fact, the sexism and sexualization of women is so all pervasive, that I find a lot of straight women don’t even know it’s happening around them. It’s why I’m a radical feminist, because I do see the damage and the attrocity, and as a privileged and lucky lesbian who never had to be forced into sex with men ever, and to be lucky enough never to have to live with men, I feel this clarity gives voice to my passionate anger at pro-porn pro-prostition women — calling this sex positive feminism is very much like calling NAZI pro-white race supporters! Meaning they give valuable self-esteme to poor oppressed white people. How women don’t get this again goes back to the childhood conditioning. The pro-porn “feminists” will never admit this, but I believe that’s what happened to most of them, and surviving the horrors they self-medicate with S & M or support all of it. It’s complex, but I see this so often I can’t deny the reasoning behind it.
Because I’m a woman, sexual abuse is so much harder for me. Obviously I could never recover from it, I’m damaged for life. And how fucked am I? Even if I figure out that I’m constantly being oppressed by men, I’ve already been tainted by them so I can’t run into the arms of a loving dick-free partner.